The common virtues

Liberality is generosity — the virtue of giving freely without expecting anything in return.

Aristotle placed it between the extremes of prodigality (giving too much, recklessly) and miserliness (hoarding everything). The liberal person gives the right amount, to the right people, at the right time.

It’s not about being rich. You can be liberal with your time, your attention, your knowledge, your encouragement. The person who always picks up the check but never listens to their friends isn’t practicing liberality — they’re just spending money.

True liberality comes from abundance mentality. When you believe there’s enough to go around, giving doesn’t feel like losing. It feels natural. This connects to Charity but is broader — charity focuses on those in need, while liberality is a general disposition of openness and generosity toward everyone.

The hard part is giving without keeping score. The moment you start tallying what you’ve given versus what you’ve received, you’ve left liberality behind and entered the territory of transaction.

Liberality also means being generous in judgment. Giving people the benefit of the doubt. Assuming good intentions. Not everyone deserves it, but starting from that place tends to bring out the best in people.